Our partner hosts in Gainesville and Marietta shot out this news, so we thought we’d pass it on. CTI starts new classes in Life Skills, Family Building, (both in Gvle ) and Project Relate, couples communication, (in OKC) IN April. We also are launching the Mentor network alongside.
The blowout concert on March 14th marked the beginning of 100 Days of Fresh. Fresh vision. Fresh fire. Fresh strength. It was a beautiful moment and the touch continues.
Dr Tunstall stirred us the next morning with a fresh call to action at Hope Connection, the place where all struggles are welcome, the place that welcomes and wants those of us with hurts, hangups, and habits of which we’d like to be free.
Classes in new thinking and family building followed on Monday.
This weekend we launch Mentor training with CTI with a full class. Also Moustafa Al Jassin, an international artist offers private lessons in abstract painting for adults and children.
In April Dr Tunstall will be bringing a fresh fire series for three Sundays right after Easter as we prepare both campuses for simultaneous live services.
April 6th starts new 10 week sessions of Life Skills, Think About It!, and Family Builders, parenting.
Prayer Force One be with us April 10 and 11 as part of the Medal of Honor celebration. The first Prayer Medal of Honor be awarded right her in Gainesville.
Corazones de Servicio, mission to Matamoros, leaves April 30 on Dia Del Niño and returns May 3rd for a power packed weekend working with CAREVI and the men’s recovery center in the colonias.
The sports complex in Marietta is on tap with two half court basketball courts scheduled to open to the public this month.
Mother’s Day and Father’s Day will be fun celebrations.
GET FREE on Sunday evenings at 6:30 is building steam. This study based on biblical principles matched to 12 step programs is a powerful tool for all. Come any week.
What are you doing for the community? Join the team that does not know how to lie down. This generation deserves the best.
Now forming evangelism and kids teams in both cities. Take your place.
Hope Connection 3404 N Grand Ave Gainesville 700 S Hwy 77 Marietta
10:45am and 6:30pm Gvle
9am Mrta (until May)
I Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
In this oft quoted clip from Paul’s instructional letter to groups in a society marked by anger, avarice, greed, and selfish ambition, we see a few aspects of love. Paul birthed and nutured a work among the people and wanted a mark of compassion, mercy, consideration, graciousness, patience, and cooperation.
Love can be passionate, friendly, family, unconditional or all four. When love expresses itself in control, abuse, violence, and exploitation, we wonder if there is any love at all. We make laws to protect people against such expressions.
I pray real love that serves others surrounds you and your family and friends, friend. Our society is torn. One of the top books and movies of our time romanticizes exploitation. As this movie releases over the St. Valentine’s weekend, my heart is heavy. The sickness of our society flows in the streets. Every day, I face men and women who are exploited or are exploiting others. I face them with offers to come out to a different lifestyle. I know you as a leader, do also.
To romanticize deep emotional and physical scars strikes me as aberrant. Our nation deserves a better life forward. People need to know it is okay to become okay.
I pray, friend, that you are covered with compassion, consideration, confidence, commitment, patience, affirmation, appreciation, support, comfort, and concern.
I pray, friend, that you pour those qualities into every decision you make.
I pray for our communities, states, and nation that we honor and raise high standards of community covenant and strength based on love that never fails.
We commit to a better life for our community. We commit to a life full of graciousness and peace. We commit to develop fathers, parents, and community leaders full of grace and peace. We commit to offer this grace and peace in education, events, and encouragement.
Phil Larson 405-388-8037 firstname.lastname@example.org
Community Transformation touches multiple strata through education, encouragement and engagement for the development of a stable family healthy community transformed to moral integrity, personal responsibility, and community accountability.
- Strengthen fathers in the home, leaders in business, congregation, education, and community as well as legislators in all states.
- Transform this generation of fractured and fatherless families through education, encouragement, and engagement.
- Move forward toward a better life through relationship and communication training solutions that are research and evidence based.
- Develop moral integrity, personal responsibility, and community accountability through wisdom based encouragements.
- Engage and empower individuals in leadership action and network.
How will we do this?
Family and Fathering Weekends
Focused community education and training.
Encouraging Words and A Listening Heart to 7000 legislators.
Encouraging Words and a Listening Heart to 30,000 Pastors.
Encouraging Words to All Who Come.
Cooperative Engagements with Like-Hearted Groups.
Why Do We Do This?
- The United States leads the world in fatherlessness with over 40% o of our children going to bed without a father present.
- Our fatherlessness is not just physical. It is emotional, social, relational, and spiritual.
- The active presence of a supportive father brings home and community health. Studies prove that children with this advantage perform better in education, become more caring people, and avoid destructive behaviors.
- This situation is reflective of the health of our leadership in community, congregation, and home.
- Good leaders and good fathers are nurturing, committed, caring, alert, aware, involved, protective providers.
- Good leaders and good fathers are supported and covered in caring community.
We commit to make a difference in the home, the neighborhood, the community, the states, and our nation.
What Is Our Status?
- All of our successes have been due to great cooperation across the community and the part-time leadership of Phil Larson, our director.
- Since 2002, numerous fathering and parenting citywide and focused events have been held in cooperation with the National Center for Fathering, The Oklahoma Family Policy Council, The Oklahoma Department of Human Services, CDC, CBMC, and hundreds of other community groups and congregations.
- Since 2002, numerous cross denominational and cross cultural events have been held developing leadership community unity.
- Since 2002, hundreds of thousands of encouraging messages and prayers have been delivered.
- Today, we reach 3500 legislators in 34 states.
- Today, we reach 2000+ community leaders in congregations and businesses primarily in the Oklahoma City metro along with the Matamoros metro.
- Today, we work with Transformers, many of whom are referred from probation and parole, through Life Skills (cognitive self restructuring) and Parenting classes.
- We understand we need full time leadership to reach the next level of community impact. Phil Larson has made the missionary commitment to give himself fully to this effort and has exited his business professional position to see this happen.
We are committed to make a difference.
How Can I Help?
- Finances : The Community Transformation Initiative is an authorized extension of PrayerMetro, Inc., an authorized 501c3 for charitable tax deductible contribution. EIN 11-3664238. Mail to The Community Transformation Initiative c/o PrayerMetro, 508 Tumbleweed Dr., Yukon, Oklahoma 73009 or give now by clicking here.
- Prayer: Commit to pray with every update, every gift you give, every hour you serve or every day if your heart is so moved.
- Hands: This work takes many talents and hands. What can you give of yourself?
Phil Larson 405-388-8037 email@example.com
Fathers are left out of the dialogue. With a national trend of single mom homes, there has a been a rightful focus on targeting solutions for these families. Possibly the pendulum swung so far we missed the point?
Fathers must be in the language and in the dialogue. They must be mentioned, included, and sought after. The problem includes them, so must the solution.
This quick read article from Canada points out good thought.
There is plenty of research showing how important a father’s involvement can be in a child’s life, but a new study from UQAM suggests this isn’t being translated into public policy in Quebec.
Psalm 27:10-13 When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take care of me. Teach me Your way, O Lord, And lead me in a smooth path, because of my enemies. Do not deliver me to the will of my adversaries; for false witnesses have risen against me, and such as breathe out violence. I would have lost heart, unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord In the land of the living.
Our nation cringes in a fatherless morass. 40% of our children go to bed with dad gone. 40% are being born into never married situation in an unprecedented spiral of fractured family. People care. I know you care, Greater Mt. Carmel.
The impact of a fatherless family leans to poverty, behavioral disorder, juvenile detention, suicide, and drop outs in school. No one wants that society. The impact of fatherfulness leads to better school performance, increased compassion, stable and secure identity, and a better life forward.
I pray you find ways to develop the environment of stable families through your action and example. Families need a smooth path. Families need relief from their adversaries. Families need escape from false ideologies that do violence to our children. You can give heart to families to see goodness in their lives now. You can be the hand of this scriptural promise. You can live a prophetic life of change.
The two links below speak to ways men can encourage their sons and daughters into a different life. Really, we all can encourage a better life forward for our neighborhood, congregation, community, state, and nation. It just takes each of us doing what we can do.
Father, here is a family and friend. I friend and family before you. Whether a family of one or many, bless the home. Be the smooth path. Give relief from adversaries. Walk in escape from false ideologies that do damage to protection and provision and contentment and commitment and nurturing. Give heart to see goodness in this life, now.
Phil Larson 405-388-8037
to support financially
Community Transformation c/o PrayerMetro, Inc. 501c3
508 Tumbleweed Dr. Yukon, Ok 73099
Share every good thing you have with anyone who teaches you what God has said (CEV) Galatians 6:6
I am not trying to get something from you, but I want you to receive the blessings that come from giving. Philippians 4:17
You’ve watched it. Some CSI show captures your attention and you watch it for years. Las Vegas, New York, San Francisco, whatever, and whenever your senses are tickled by the obtuse and violent trends in society. Over supper, you watch blood and gore and grim. In time you are desensitzed.
In the rooms of your home another crime scene is being repeated. The number one cause of death in ages 10-24 is accidental death, followed by suicide and murder. 70% of death in this age range is violent. According to CDC surveys reported by Child Trends “High school males are more than three times as likely as females to carry a weapon (28 and eight percent, respectively, in 2013). This difference holds for all racial and ethnic subgroups, as well as at each grade level. (Figure 2) The prevalence of carrying a weapon, however, has declined significantly among both males and females (by 15 and four percentage points, respectively) since 1991.
What? What is going on here? We are talking in many cases 1 in 3 high schools students carrying a weapon. Is life really that violent for them? What fear causes that? Are they being aggressive or defensive? Do you know your own house?
Men, you have the power to protect. While working for over a decade with Dr. Ken Canfield and the National Center For Fathering, one of the Seven Secrets of Effective Fathers stands out as Protect and Provide. But, we aren’t doing the job. So many men have stepped off the curb of manhood and integrity that our young men are resorting to violence to protect themselves and assert their ideas and identities.
The Huffington Post has a great eye opener to this violence trend in youth and relationships. Don’t read it unless you are ready to weep and have your sensibilities stripped back to reality. We have and epidemic of violence.
Take a look at the graph. You will see that family violence offenders are predominant in ages 20-39 and too high in ages 15-any age. Our young men are angry and taking it out on others. No, all offenders are not men. But the preponderance are.
Fatherless young men are perpetuating fatherless young men and women.
Men, you can make a difference. You can give this generation a better view of the world and you can still this storm with your compassion and concern
What can a man do when the foundations have been destroyed and violence reigns?
. Men, listen to your sons. Listen with your mouth closed. Get into a Life Skills class and build some new skills.
. Men and women, resolve your own angst and develop new insights as a parent. Get support.
. Couples, young, old, planning to marry, struggling through coupleness, never married… Take action. Get moving.
. Men, get control of your eyes and examples. What are you teaching through your life?
. Men, do something kind to your child’s mother every week that they can see without having to try to see it. I don’t care if she hates you or not. I don’t care if she is married to you or not. Your children are watching you.
. Men, contain your habit of awfulizing.
What is AWFULIZING? n. refers to an irrational and dramatic thought pattern, characterized by the tendency to overestimate the potential seriousness or negative consequences of events, situations, or perceived threats. AWFULIZING: “A person who engages in awfulizing, likely predicts the most catastrophic outcome in every circumstance.” Psychology Dictionary
. Men, put hope and healing into your language and actions. Find a way to apologizing for your disconnection, absence, and anger. You are the stronger one. Begin the journey.